Nailing down a messaging strategy is key to wasting less time online dating and spending more time having great first dates.
It’s too easy to get excited when you first open an account and receive a lot of messages from people who are interested in you. It’s flattering and fun to flirt.
But the problem is that without some dating site chat tips firmly planted in your mind, you are potentially prolonging your stay online, costing you time and money.
It’s All About The First Message
Actually it’s about your title. Or your first line. Then it’s about making sure that you interest and intrigue the person you have contacted, or are replying to.
Whether you are making the first move or making your first reply, what you say is crucial. We have resources here to help you with your first online dating message:
Keep The Conversation Rolling Along
Once you have got that first message out of the way, it’s time to find out more about that person. You can’t just ask a list of questions, so what do you do?
Well, you have to construct your conversations so that you can weave questions you want to ask them to check they are compatible.
You will also want to check your messages don’t let you down by following some simple structure tips.
When it comes to keeping that conversation burning hot, these resources will give you some great ideas:
Know The Messaging Etiquette And Get Your Exit Strategy Right
Once you have seeded the conversations you need to in order to check their compatibility it’s time to consider your exit strategy.
Are you heading towards a meeting? I so then there will be questions you have around messaging using your mobile phone and how to keep control of that process.
You will also want to consider if you should Text Everyday Before Meeting Someone Through Online Dating.
This may seem like a lot of information to consume. But the alternative is to not hit the right noe and have endless message conversations that are with the wrong people, or the right people but in the wrong conversation.
Finally, on top of learning, use your intuition and common sense.
For more information on messaging, including proven opening lines and salutations that get more responses, you can download our amazing 60 page guide Avoid The Numbers Game here.