Have you ever met someone you wish the universe would agree that the two of you should be together? You find a man who has the looks, is smart both inside and out and is well educated. Everything inside you wants him. But as soon as you start getting to know him, doubts start rising. You start wondering if he really is the right man for you. If you see these five signs, know that it is time to let him go. Being with him will only waste your time.
1. He keeps pointing out things about you that you should change
While it is OK to point out to someone certain areas of weakness they should seek to strengthen if that is all your man is doing, he is the wrong guy for you. If he cannot see things about you that he can celebrate, then he doesn’t deserve you. Continue dating him and you will lose yourself.
2. You don’t relax when you are with him
Do you find yourself uncomfortable around him? If you cannot feel free to be yourself around him, the two of you are wasting each other’s time. Imagine a future with a man who makes you uncomfortable! It is not worth it. In actual fact, nothing about the relationship, including sex, would be enjoyable. You would be setting yourself up for a life of loneliness.
3. When you look into your future, you don’t see him with you
Most happily married people will tell you that when they met their spouses and fell in love, they could not imagine their lives without their spouses. Every time they would look into the future, they would see themselves with the person they love. If you cannot see yourself growing old with that man on your side, it is perhaps time to dump him.
4. Your friends and family don’t like him
It is quite normal to have your parents, not like the man you are dating. However, when your friends join your parents in disliking him, you need to reconsider your position. Remember that your friends have been with you over the years and know you better than that man you just met. Their perspective is your best chance of seeing your man for who he is. If your friends and family agree that the man is a bad influence, then it is time for you to re-look and reconsider.
5. He hardly listens to you
A man who truly loves you will be willing to hear your point of view. If the man you are dating doesn’t ever let you speak, he should not have you. There are also those who might let you say something and disregard it entirely when it’s their turn to speak. Almost as if you did not say anything at all. A relationship should be about mutual contribution. If he is the only one with all the best ideas, get out of his way and let him date himself.
Article supplied by Chris from http://www.1pmdaily.com